
Being Aware of Conceit
When we visit a temple and
pray before the Buddha, we discover that most of the images of the Buddha have
their eyes half opened, or half shut.
This is known as ghalf-closed eyes,h
and with those symbolic images the Buddha is teaching us the importance of
seeing the outside world with half of our eyes and our own inner world with the
other half.
In other words, seeing our own inner world with our eyes
half-closed is to become aware of the conceit that can be called the original
source of our mental sufferings, while seeing the world outside this way is to
recognize our large debt of gratitude by awakening to the fact that we are
caused to live surrounded by unlimited blessings.
Our eyes are rather good at
seeing the outside world. However, when our attention goes only to the outside
world we neglect viewing our inner world and we gradually become puffed up with
a self-centered way of thinking that destroys the harmony of our surroundings.
As a result, a rife can develop in our human relations and we will feel
discontented.
Feelings Get Through
Article Ten of Prince
Shotokufs Seventeen-Article Constitution states,gAlthough others give way to
anger, let us on the contrary dread our own faults.h
This means that when
someone is angry with us, we must review our conduct and tell ourselves to face
up to our own shortcomings. This teaches us that instead of returning anger with
anger, our thinking over our own mistakes and recognizing that we may have been
wrong will cause the other personfs anger to disappear.
In this way, by
humbly acknowledging our faults and reflecting upon them, we not only harmonize
with our surroundings, we become aware that we are caused to live by the one
great life-force, the Dharma of impermanence, that permeates all living
things\ourselves as well as others. We could say that this is a realm without
conflict that transcends ourselves and others, and that it is the state in which
we and others are as one.
It is reported that recently many young people have
withdrawn from society, refusing to have anything to do with the world around
them and falling into a lonely type of existence. The hearts of more than a few
families have been pained by experiencing this. While there must be many causes
for becoming socially withdrawn, surely the young people who have closed their
hearts cannot themselves be satisfied with such a state of affairs.
For
example, when we see someone who is filled with joyful gratitude, how can we
help but wish to be like that person? If young people who have withdrawn from
society could have contact with such joyful people, those feelings of gratitude
would be communicated to them and the wish to open the doors of their heart
would naturally well up inside them.
gLearn wisdom from the follies of
others,h as we are told. This world is a vast realm of causes and conditions and
the phenomena occurring therein are all part of the Buddhafs teaching of the
Dharma, so let us grow spiritually day by day, maintaining our humility to be
able to learn from everything that surrounds us.
The Importance of Half-closed Eyes
December