
The Origin of Thankfulness
gThe heart of
gratitude for having been born and raised is the origin of thankfulness,h writes
Professor Shigeru Tenmyo of Miyagi University in a recent book.
We are not
born and raised under our own power. That we exist in the here and now is thanks
to our parents, our ancestors, and many other people, and when we search for the
source of life we come to understand that we are caused to live by eternal
life?the Dharma of impermanence that has no beginning and no end. When we
realize this and become aware of the origin of gratitude, each of us can open
his or her eyes to the preciousness of our own lives and the lives of
others.
I once heard about a woman who had felt she wanted to die because of
the bullying she suffered after she changed schools as a junior high school
student. After listening to her mother tell her of the joy and great hope she
felt after her daughter was born, she recovered from her morbid feelings with a
sense of gThank you very much, Mother, for allowing me to be born twice.h Today
that experience is the motivation behind her wish to be helpful to others.
Similarly, through awareness of the source of life, even people who have
been living self-centeredly can open their eyes to the realm of oneness of
ourselves and others in which everyone is living one Life, and develop the
feeling of wanting to do their utmost for the happiness of others.
One Birthplace
There is a verse: gBirthplace / That is
where I came from. / Birthplace / That is where I will return.h
I
occasionally repeat to myself this verse by the educator Yoshio Toi (1912-91)
because it is important in making us realize the role of our roots or the
birthplace of our lives.
Through the realization of the Dharma of
impermanence that says that all things in the world continue to change without
ceasing for even an instant, we awaken to the source of life and clearly
understand the need for thankfulness for today, for having been caused to live
now.
Then, conceited thoughts of ourselves always being right disappear, and
we are filled with the wish that everyone would be humble, friendly toward each
other, and live in harmony.
In our daily lives we use every opportunity to
chant the o-daimoku, gNamu Myo-ho Renge-kyoh (I Take Refuge in the Sutra of the
Lotus Flower of the Wonderful Dharma). This is like saying that it is up to the
one great Life that brings life to everything?the source of life.
The
o-daimoku is, so to speak, the expression of the one single Truth that permeates
everything in the world. We chant it because taking refuge in the Truth to which
Shakyamuni was enlightened is our declaration of dedicating our lives in our
heart of hearts to the Truth.
The Birthplace of Life for Us
July