
A Mind Awakened to Its Debt of Gratitude
We
have been born as human beings, we have encountered the conditions leading us to
faith, and we are capable of finding happiness through learning the Buddha
Dharma?all because everything has a cause. The Chinese character read as on (a
favor or kindness, a debt of gratitude) which consists of two elements?one for
kokoro (heart, mind) and one for in (cause)?can also be interpreted as the mind
having awakened to this fact.
We often hear people say, gI never realized how
much my parents had done for me until I became a parent myself.h When we first
experience having our own children and raising them, we finally come to
recognize for ourselves how much we owe to our parents for having raised us with
such care. Through recognizing our debt of gratitude to our fathers and mothers,
we are able to maintain well-ordered families by performing acts of filial piety
directed to our parents and venerating our ancestors, thus creating a warm
family atmosphere.
Furthermore, by learning from a master teacher, and
through a variety of personal experiences, we are able to know the great
Life-force (the Buddha) that causes all things to live. Parents and children are
connected in the realm of love and affection. Masters and disciples are
connected in a spiritual realm that transcends this.
In this way, through our
parents and our teachers we are taught those things, invisible to our eyes, that
are most important to being human, and come to realize their
importance.
Repaying What We Owe to Others
We human
beings do not live alone. Our day-to-day lives are made up of the help and
support we receive from many other people and things. We owe a debt of gratitude
to our parents, our teachers, our friends and, in addition to those around us,
to all of nature as well.
Realizing the importance of what we are taught is
recognizing our debt of gratitude to those who taught us. The mind that
acknowledges and repays this debt of gratitude is what can be called the very
hallmark of a true human being. In other words, recognizing our debt of
gratitude is also recognizing that we must lead our lives feeling grateful to
everyone.
When we realize our indebtedness for the many things we receive,
and genuinely strive to understand what we should do in repayment, then we
cannot help but feel deep gratitude for each of the everyday things we have been
taking for granted: gMy salary is naturally what I receive for working,h gMy
dinner is naturally something that is fixed for me at the end of the day.h
As
we greet the new year, let us vow to advance even further spiritually so that we
are able to better repay the precious and appreciated debt of gratitude that we
owe to the Buddha, our teachers, our parents, and to all of nature.
Recognizing Our Debt of
Gratitude
January